I have been with the love of my life for 5 years now. We got married 2 years ago. When we got married I became pregnant and we moved in with his parents.. He got a part time job and makes bout 200 a week. He said it would only be temporary when we moved in. Well we went on vacation and i came back with a surprise. My son was born a month ago. I am still here and I hate his parents they are insane and took over my daughter and we do not get along. They baby him and his mother even tells me things like a wife is supposed to do this.I clean up after everyone of these lazy pigs and get no help with the kids at all. I am miserable. We would have enough money if he would not blow it all the time, 2 move out. He has plenty of stuff we could sell and maybe even buy a small house. Every time I mention moving there is something wrong with it. Now he is talking about fixing their basement up 2 move in. I said no.What would you do?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:49 AM on Apr. 22, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by bekka106 at 4:01 AM on Apr. 22, 2010
Answer by Apple_Pie2010 at 4:44 AM on Apr. 22, 2010
I would give him a ultimatum. We are moving or me and the kid/s are moving.
Answer by louise2 at 5:42 AM on Apr. 22, 2010
Answer by tropicalmama at 6:24 AM on Apr. 22, 2010
Answer by admckenzie at 8:14 AM on Apr. 22, 2010
I had a friend who her bf convinced her if they moved in with his parents they could save money for their own house she agreed it would help. so they moved in with his parents and their kids and he started to buy things instead of saving up the money. She had enough so she moved out with the two boys and his mother told him he should leave her. Now she lives in an apartment with her kids and he still lives at his parents home. You need to do what makes your life worth living and what makes you more relaxed. Tell him either we move out as a family or I take the kid or kids and move on. There can only be one queen per house and if his parents are getting to you set a time table and if he does not stick to it you still move out. This will be a good lesson for him to make up his mind.
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 8:48 AM on Apr. 22, 2010
Answer by mommy11260 at 9:00 AM on Apr. 22, 2010
Answer by MizLee at 9:58 AM on Apr. 22, 2010
Answer by symle456 at 10:35 AM on Apr. 22, 2010