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Feeling Guilty during Sex..WHY?? PLEASE Help,please respond

I am almost 8mths pg,lately, during sex with my love , i have this feeling like i am doing something wrong to the point i cant ecen injoy it no more. i feel soo gulity and i dont know why. it is realy makeing me sad . like i am cheating on him or something and i am not. things cross my mind like what am i doing. i want him sooo bad than i get soo sad . than i just cant enjoy it no more. please if you ever have this feeling ar know i might be feeling this please let me know. it really bothering me. . its like he is the person i am cheating with but Hellloooo he is the boyfrind. lol i hope you understand this cuz i dont


Asked by jannahsmom01 at 12:44 PM on Apr. 23, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • I felt the same way once my first child was born. I felt guilty only because in my mind, a mother should not do this or that. I don't know if this is what is happening with you or not. I just wanted to let you know, you are not alone. I felt the same but it was after she was born. I did keep going and soon everything settled. I settled into being me, wife and mother not just mother. Hang in there mom..

    Answer by midnightmoma at 3:10 PM on Apr. 23, 2010

  • Um, it's called crazy pregnant hormones. Just focus on the positives of making love with your mate, and ignore the crazy pregnancy hormones

    Answer by Zakysmommy at 1:10 PM on Apr. 23, 2010

  • yup shes right.. its the hormones!! I used to get the same way. Itll get better and if it doesnt.. hey , you wont be pregnant forever! Good Luck and dont stress!

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:39 PM on Apr. 23, 2010

  • The only thing that would make me feel guilty in your situation is the not-married status, but I'm also a very religious sort of person.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:30 PM on Apr. 23, 2010

  • I agree it is just pregnancy hormones. It will get better, I am sure after the baby is born. You don't have much longer. Don't focus on what you think you are doing wrong, focus on how good it feels.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:40 PM on Apr. 23, 2010

  • if beliving your soo religious, you would know the first thing god taught was not to judge , To the holy person who thinks she is god,,lol

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:44 PM on Apr. 23, 2010