Children make friends on a daily basis.... Why can't adults? I was hoping to get on cafemom and find other moms with the same interests as me and make new friends. Real friends not just someone to chat online with. I have seen way too many women that are mean on here. They want to bash others for too many reasons. Whether it be that a woman is reaching out for answeres and get bashed or has different views from another they get bashed. I just wish there were an easier way to meet new people and make REAL friends...
Asked by Anonymous at 1:26 PM on Apr. 23, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 1:35 PM on Apr. 23, 2010
Answer by maxsmom11807 at 1:27 PM on Apr. 23, 2010
first.. I dont consider "cyber" friends "real" friends. There are a couple women that I have known via the net for well over a year... I would love to meet them and start a friendship. But until I have 100% confirmation in person, in real life, that they are who they say they are... I will be guarded.
In real life I find it VERY easy to make friends.... specially once you have kids. Just walk up to a mom at the park and make conversation. Ask about dr, dds, a preschool, her child, the weather... etc. Exchange info and meet again. Or if your child is school age just walk up to a mom in the class and ask if she wants to go walking/hiking after the kids are in school. It really isnt hard... you just have to put your self out there.
Dont expect life long friends instantly.... those kinds of relationships build over many years.
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