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how do i fix...

a realationship?

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Asked by nativepride90 at 11:22 AM on Apr. 24, 2010 in Relationships

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  • There is really no simple answer to this question, it depends on the problems in the relationship.

    Answer by laciD at 11:23 AM on Apr. 24, 2010

  • laciD is right, it depend on the problem at hand. Please be more specific.

    Answer by ambr2006 at 11:35 AM on Apr. 24, 2010

  • Back up and see where it got broke and start from there.

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:35 AM on Apr. 24, 2010

  • Okay I will help you. If he is cheating, it cannot be fixed, this is a big No No to me.

    Answer by ambr2006 at 11:35 AM on Apr. 24, 2010

  • I agree with the depends on WHAT part of your relationship is broken! Is it lack of communication? Is it lack of trust? Without those two fundamental traits, NO relationship will survive.

    Start with sitting down and calmly, rationally and maturely TALKING things over. If that doesn't work, then try marriage counseling.

    Bottom line, relationships CAN be repaired, but it takes BOTH people WANTING to repair it! One person cannot repair a relationship!

    Answer by LoriKeet at 11:39 AM on Apr. 24, 2010

  • Start with what is wrong and work from there find out if it is fixable and maybe if your relationship is stale find something for you to do alone then incorporate it into the relationship. only you can know how you deserve to live and what you can put up with or take or what you consider tolerable.


    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 12:12 PM on Apr. 24, 2010

  • Start working on yourself first. If you are treating him badly because of things done in the past, or holding things inside it will come out on him, and he will respond the same way you treat him. Start treating him like he is your best friend, and maybe he will start acting like it. Works for me.

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 5:56 PM on Apr. 24, 2010

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