Every time we have extra money he spends it ALL on something we do not need. Last time, it was a 2500 sports car and I was 8 months pregnant and we had to pay big chunks on it. I also had to depend on my babyshower for a lot of stuff (I had saved for) I thought I could buy if I did not get. Luckily it worked out.
Now I couldn't afford health insurance for me for a bit and was going to buy some again, and even though I told him, he pays 900 to have his loader (that he never uses) engine machined and 500 for tools (auction, no returns). He said "we'll have money for it all" but NO.. NO WE WON'T.. I told him LAST TIME that he did this that he had better never do this to me again. Consult me on stuff. We're a family and if he was paying someone to take care of our son and home the way I do, he'd be unable to afford it for long.
What would YOU do? I'm just so mad I haven't even reacted yet.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:49 AM on Apr. 25, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by MizLee at 1:16 PM on Apr. 25, 2010
My ex-husband is like that. DO NOT MARRY HIM!!! He won't change, my ex never did. Marriage isn't going to mean a damn thing to him, he's going to continue his spending habits no matter what. In the end you'll have to pay extra for divorce costs, it is not going to be worth it. You can try talking to him about this 1 last time, but some guys just don't get it. It's like women that are shopaholics, he may never put his family 1st.
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