ok so whenever my dh is mad at me or were arguing he always bringd up divorce saying were over, and we should get divorced when we made a promise 2 1/2 yrs ago not to threatn each other w divorce when we were fighting. and recently he asked me what i would do if we were to seperate.
i told him and hes like no i mean how would you support yourself?, i said why are you asking, do you want to be seperated? he said no i was just asking what you would do,
... i think hes just looking for an excuse, a reason to leave me, but everytime i tell him if you wana leave then leave, he just gets all pissy.
what is up w him, or whats his promlem, any advice?
Answer by neebug3766 at 3:50 PM on Apr. 26, 2010
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Answer by kimberlyinberea at 4:00 PM on Apr. 26, 2010
Your husband is being emotionally abusive. He knows you will have trouble supporting yourself so he is using it to hurt you over and over. You have to decide if you want to live with it. Counseling may help.
Do you want to be separated? isn't a good response. There are other things you can say or do. You could remind him that he agreed to not threaten you and walk away. The next time he does it, don't say anything and walk away. You could tell him that you will take him to court and make sure you get evey penny you can from him and that divorced women survive just fine. If you do separate or divorce he would have to pay your legal fees.
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Answer by admckenzie at 4:11 PM on Apr. 26, 2010
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