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Have you ever cheated on your current SO?

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:06 PM on Apr. 26, 2010 in Relationships

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  • No need, we have an open relationship. It keeps things honest and fresh.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:09 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • OP here. How does that work? How did you approach the subject. I love my DH, dearly.. but...

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:12 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • Nope, I have a good hubs, I love him very much and I would never cheat on him.

    Answer by MizLee at 4:14 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • no, my vows still mean a lot to me, if I ever find someone I would be tempted to cheat with, I would end the relationship right then and there, before it got to be cheating.

    Answer by older at 4:20 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • Nope. I would love to have an open relationship, I think it would do us a lot of good, but he isn't really interested... I keep bringing it up, he keeps hitting me with this " I don't want another woman" line, which I just hate... But as long as his mind is closed, I'll deal. To me cheating is about honor and respect. As long as you respect him enough to be open and honest about things, it's not cheating, but if he isn't open about things, then as his equal you can't be either...

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 4:23 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • Sabrina, I really like your views on it..

    How do you like, approach the subject? I really don't want to hurt his feelings, but being a cheater will REALLY hurt him and I don't want that either..

    Are there rules? I am new at this kind of stuff.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:34 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • Yes, but we weren't living together or married at the time. Funny thing is, I see the guy almost every day. I wonder if he remembers. We were both really wasted.

    Answer by Wendums71 at 4:38 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • WHAT THE F--K !

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:58 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • No. I married my husband because he is the only person I want to be with. If I still wanted to be with other guys, I would not have gotten married. If my marriage ever gets so bad that I start thinking about having sex with other men, I will get a divorce before I cheat.

    Answer by TarLion at 4:58 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • Nope, never have cheated on him and never will. I love him and only him. I enjoy intimacy with him, and I would not degrade that intimacy by sharing myself with another man, physically or emotionally. I respect him too much to disrespect him by sneaking around. If we had a problem that would lead to me feeling the urge to cheat, I would tell him about the problem and try to work it out. If that didn't work, I'd end the relationship, but I would never ever hurt him like that.

    Answer by tropicalmama at 5:12 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

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