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we fight.

ibeen just has surgery a week ago. i have a toddler. my partner and i have been fighting everyday almost since i got out of surgery. i feel that she is punishing me for having to have surgery. usually we are so close. but right now it feels that we are miles apart. i had to ask her to come home early from work today because i needed her, i do not feel strong enough to be alone with our toddler. she came home and we have been fighting all day. what do i do. i feel so sad.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:04 PM on Apr. 26, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (7)
  • Tell her your feelings be very open tell her what is on your mind she needs to stand by you in this moment and time if she plans on being with you if not you will have to find away to make yourself strong and independentGL
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:13 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • you need to clear things up i think he needs to help you out if you barely had surgery ... he shoud be doing that ... talk to him, and explain that you cant do that rightnow so he has to help you out
    Naralie

    Answer by Naralie at 7:10 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • I'm sorry, what type of surgery.. maybe you just need time alone together
    Jan0609momma

    Answer by Jan0609momma at 7:12 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • I think you meant he,lol cause you said 'our toddler" are you still taking meds hun? maybie you should just let him know how you feel.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:15 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • maybe she is resenting the extra work load, even though it doesn't seem reasonable or fair at all. our emotions are not usually reasonable. try to tell her how you feel, and tell her you will be back to full strength soon. i am sorry you have to go through this when you should be able to just relax and heal :(
    happy2bmom25

    Answer by happy2bmom25 at 8:11 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • Maybe it isn't a relationship with a man and a woman...
    LovinMyMikayla

    Answer by LovinMyMikayla at 10:55 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • i am the OP, and yes i ment she and toddler. we are a lesbian couple. and we have a toddler.
    thank you to everyone for yor comments.
    i just want to give you an update. we talked yesterday and worked out everything. she is an amazing partner and mom. she took our baby to work today for the morning and let me sleep! it was so nice. thanks again to everyone and your kind words. : )
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:00 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

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