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i wonder.....

what all the single moms do with their kids while they go out and get drunk or party or whatever. i have so many friends that pawn their kids off on any one will take them so they can go party. if you didnt want to have kids maybe you shouldnt have had sex in the first place!!! if i wanted to to go out and get drunk or party i could... there are people who would be more than willing to watch my kids but what kind of mother leaves their child home ALMOST EVERY NIGHT for a few beers or shots or whatever. i just dont understand it. it makes me sooooo mad!!!!! youre childred didnt ask to be born so why would you have them and leave them all the time? grow the hell up and take care of what you made.. no man... no drink... no friend... no bar... NOTHING is more important than the little person sitting at home wondering why mom goes out to drink ALL THE TIME!!!!

ok... i am done.

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kayhay

Asked by kayhay at 11:52 PM on Apr. 26, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • Amen sister :) well said
    BUSYLOVINGHIM

    Answer by BUSYLOVINGHIM at 11:54 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • how old is the mom? some people use it as an escape but that is waaaay too often. very sad.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:56 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • Besides the single moms that may do that, there are married moms that leave the kids with the dad and go dot he same.... Its a shame!
    iliana90

    Answer by iliana90 at 11:59 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • Either way its not good... I mean on occasions or birthdays its different but that often not cool
    iliana90

    Answer by iliana90 at 11:59 PM on Apr. 26, 2010

  • the mom is almost 26... and about the married moms.... atleast the children are being left home with one of their parents... my husband and i go out without each other once every couple of months while the other stays home... and about once a month my parents take the kids for a few hours while we go out to eat or to a movie.. but have never left the kids with some one over night so we can get drunk.. or even come home a little bit buzzed... if we have to come home to our kids we dont drink unless the other one has had NOTHING to drink..
    kayhay

    Answer by kayhay at 12:03 AM on Apr. 27, 2010

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