Is there anything that you just don't say to your DH/SO when you fight? What is that "line" that you won't cross, no matter what?
Name calling, "I hate you", "I hope you die"...?
The reason I ask is- DH & I had a fight tonight, & the last thing he said to me before storming out to go to his apartment (we are separated) was, "You are being a total b*tch. Just go die."
So I am just wondering if I am totally out of line to be really upset... I don't know if I can forgive him for this one.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:28 AM on Apr. 27, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by KTMOM at 9:51 AM on Apr. 27, 2010
Answer by mmmegan38 at 7:59 AM on Apr. 27, 2010
We never say anything that is insulting PERIOD. Every argument or problem that arises can be dealt without having to call names or say things that make one person feel less than who they really are. That should always be avoided. If someone has to revert to hitting below the belt, then that person should seek counseling because problems never get resolved properly & fairly if you cross the line. Some people can't help it. I have a friend who is always belittling her husband, then she asks why he won't talk to her for days..WELL DUH! Because you're a bitch to your DH.
Yes, you have a right to be very upset about that comment. The ONLY thing that came out of that comment was his own inflated ego. Saying things like that never solves a damn thing, all it does is inflate his ego, while crushing yours. It is an unfair way to fight.
Answer by samurai_chica at 8:48 AM on Apr. 27, 2010
Answer by KFree907 at 9:20 AM on Apr. 27, 2010
Answer by figaro8895 at 9:36 AM on Apr. 27, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 10:04 AM on Apr. 27, 2010
Answer by Orionsgirl at 10:33 AM on Apr. 27, 2010
He definitely crossed the line calling you a bi**h and hoping you would die. If I where you I would not talk to him for a month or two.
Answer by louise2 at 1:11 PM on Apr. 27, 2010
Answer by rio_burb at 2:53 PM on Apr. 27, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:57 PM on Apr. 27, 2010
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