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if a man walks in your life not knowing nothing about you but he showing that he care and love you for who you is and not what you got but you push away his love how would you handle situation?

Keep in mind his family straights dog your name and at times when yall is together you love him then again you don't know if you want to be with him but he keeps trying and he love the *+%& out your kids!


Asked by Anonymous at 1:42 PM on Apr. 27, 2010 in Relationships

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  • If you're willing to push him away ontop of not being sure if you want to be with him .. Then you don't really want him. If you honestly love someone, if you honestly want to be with them then you'd be with them. If you question whether you want him, then you don't want him. Period.

    Don't worry about what his family says about you. The relationship is about you and him, not you/him and the world. Worry about what you want from him as far as a relationship (or no relationship) goes. Then go from there.

    Him genuinely loving you doesn't determin whether you should be in a relationship with him. If you don't love him back, then you're wasting your time and his. That and you're leading him on and that's not right. If you don't want him, tell him and let him go.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 1:51 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • It is good he likes/loves your kids. But that is not as important as you wanting to be with him for the rest of your life. He will be your SO/DH after the kids are grown.

    Answer by louise2 at 1:51 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • What???

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:55 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • I second that...What?

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:08 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • There are people who have abandonment issues that are afraid to let people in and love us for who we are. Many times we are afraid they will leave so we are scared to let down the wall of fear so we push them away. If he's a good man, just try to enjoy him and let him prove himself

    Answer by admckenzie at 2:17 PM on Apr. 27, 2010