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He's NOT The Father!

OK my sister just found out that her bf of 14 years is not the father of her 13 year old son, she always had a feeling that he may not be, but her bf didnt really want to know either way. Her son is named after him first and last name, her bf is on his birth certificate and he has been supporting him since he was born. Well he decided to get a dna test and it came back that hes not the father, he was/is mad/sad,he left her and told her hes not supporting him anymore.They have 2 other children together as well. My sister knows who the father is and he doesnt want anything to do with my nephew. My question is can she get child support from the bio dad from now until hes 18 if she takes him to court? Or will the judge make her bf continue to support hm? She seems to believe that the judge wont make the bio dad pay

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:38 PM on Apr. 27, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • well that poor guy! he thought that was his son for so long she shouldn't ask him for shit! shame on her!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:40 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • It would really be up to the judge, but they may just tell him that since he assumed responsiblity in the first place he is still responsible.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:40 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • She doesnt want her bf to continue to help support her son, she wants the bio dad to help now
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:42 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • that depends... Did he sign the paternity papers at the hospital?? SO had to sign papers after both our DD's were born stating that he took full responsibility as their father. It still is mainly up to the judge to decide....
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:43 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • since there has been a dna then the responsible party is the bio!!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:44 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • Yes he signed the papers because he thought it was his son
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:44 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • she may have to get a new birth cert with the bio dad on it, which will require another dna test. after that i would think he would have to pay.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:46 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • eye rollingwhy is it that women expect money for popping out babies? shame on her for being a ho

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:46 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • They were broken up at the time so she isnt a hoe, and he knew having sex could make a baby so its his responsibilty as well and should have to help support him, shame on you for being a bitch, keep it moving!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:50 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

  • i'm not being a bitch i just think it's pathetic when i woman cries out for child support it's like a revenge thing
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:51 PM on Apr. 27, 2010

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