yes I would go. They just swab the inside of both of their cheeks so it is very quick and easy. Is the mother going to be there? It shows that you are a permanent part of your fiance's life and will be involved with the baby as well if he/she belongs to your fiance. Stepchildren are a huge factor in a marriage. I would think very seriously about the decision before you of marrying him knowing this other woman will be in your life for the next 18 years. After you guys get married, if you handle the money, you will probably think his money is your money since you are the one who pays the bills and keeps your lives straight, (I do) you are going to lose a good portion of that money to her. If you think you can do it more power to you but be prepared for her to not be nice in the beginning. Also, if it is a match, get custody, visitation, and child support set up and ask yourself "Is this the life I want?" Because...
at 6:09 PM on Apr. 30, 2010