I have lamaze this Saturday, but I wont have anyone to watch my DS, so DH would have to miss the class to watch our DS. My mom asked me why I don't get her SO to watch DS instead. They have been together since I was 7 YO. I told her no, DH will watch him instead. She said it would really hurt his feelings if I did not trust him to watch my DS. The thing is I don't feel comfortable with him alone with my DS. I don't know why, but i get a strange feeling when I think about letting him watch DS. I don't trust him. There is just something not right with him. But I feel bad for thinking that way. DS knows this guy as grandpa. IDK.. I don't even let my DS stay over there with out me , because I don't trust the situation, and my mom thinks her SO is just fine with being left alone with my DS. I don't know what to do? Do I ignore my feelings so I don't hurt anyone elses feelings?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:28 PM on Apr. 30, 2010 in General Parenting
Answer by LittleWeloosMom at 5:31 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 5:32 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
Always trust your instincts. There's a reason you don't feel comfortable. Fuck how anyone else feels, its your kid and your responsibility to protect him. Most child molesters are people you know.
Answer by Nyx7 at 5:32 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
Answer by maxsmom11807 at 5:33 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 5:36 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
don't ignore that feeling. even if he really is just a harmless old man, there's never a good enough reason to take that chance. we have those gut feelings for a reason.
Answer by bestmommyeber at 5:36 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 5:40 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
Answer by laciD at 5:44 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
Answer by hypermamaz at 5:45 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 5:47 PM on Apr. 30, 2010