So about a week ago my husband was arrested for soliciting a prostitute. It was a sting operation so he didn't actually do anything. He intended to do something and actually made a propistition for oral sex. To me his intention is just as bad as had he actually done something. He has apoligized ,cried done the whole 9 yards trying to show me he is sorry and he so sorry about how bad he hurt me. He's sworn that he hasn't cheated on me and won't. Still though he was going to had he not got arrested. Obviously I am hurting really bad. Part of me thinks that I will never be able to forgive him and I should leave because he had every intention on cheating on me. The other part of me thinks that he has learned his lesson and I should work on forgiving him and give him another chance. I can't even think clearly because of how upset I am!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:55 PM on Apr. 30, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by americansugar80 at 8:02 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 8:02 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
just take a break. your marriage can survive this if you want it to. but you have to take some time off to deal with your emotions. if it were me (and i've been in a similar situation. he would have done it if my bff didn't catch him in the act) i would ask him to stay elsewhere for a while. you don't need him breathing "i'm sorry" down your neck all day. leave him alone with his guilt. let him sit and wonder what you're going to do. meanwhile, go do some girly stuff. get pretty and hit the town with some friends. go feel beautiful, because you are! get some male attention (not action) and realize that you could do it without him if you had to. GL hon. (((hugs)))
Answer by bestmommyeber at 8:04 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
and i know how those sting opps work! it very well could have been the 1st time! they arrested my dad once. when he was propositioned, he said "lady, i got $2 in my pocket, and that's not even enough to feed my kids." they were able to charge him because he named a dollar amount.
Answer by bestmommyeber at 8:08 PM on Apr. 30, 2010
If it was me, I wouldn't give my husband a second chance. I already have a life threatening illness! I Don't need him to bring another on top of that to sign my death certificate!
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