So, my DH is gone for work for two weeks. He didn't take the cell phone, so he has to hunch over at a pay phone to talk to us, and can only talk for 10 min. We always argue when he calls, so last night I told him if he can only talk 10min.. to not call back. He hasn't. Not too long ago I wanted a divorce really bad. He wasn't appreciating me, he wasn't helping out with the baby, and he was virtually nonexistent (he's going to school full time and working full time.. his choice). Well, he just had to take off school because of this work trip he was taking.. and it was great, it was like I had a husband again and we decided no divorce. But now that he's gone... we're just back to fighting and I know it will be like this until he gets his degree... 3 years from now. What do you ladies think? Do I just need to give up cuz we're fighting so much? or stick it out? It's really stressful and we have a 1 year old.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:23 AM on May. 2, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by myheartx4 at 5:12 AM on May. 2, 2010
You have another choice, stop fighting. Either do it on your own or you go to counseling. It doesn't sound like he has time to go to couple's counseling.
He can get a prepaid cell phone for less than $20 at stores like WalMart.
Answer by Gailll at 4:34 AM on May. 2, 2010
He could buy a Magicjack and then he can call you from any computer with internet access. If he has a laptop he can call from anywhere that has wifi. Then there are no minutes to worry about.
Answer by Gailll at 4:37 AM on May. 2, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 4:43 AM on May. 2, 2010
stick it out life is full of ups and downs. Find some hobby or interest for yourself so you can have a break from the kids and house. It is overwhelming to have all the responsibility on one person. Tell your DH you need an outlet and find a way to make it happen.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 5:56 AM on May. 2, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 5:59 AM on May. 2, 2010
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