Okay, so we are a blended family. He has 2, I have 1, and we have a dd together. His are here full time and I've been mom since his oldest was almost 3. I am more of a babysitter for them during the week, they do live with us full time, but after 7 years nobody in their lives sees me as mom, but them. It's 4 kids here full time, but I really want another baby.
I think. Every time, I tell myself, we're not ready, it's not a good idea.....the reasons keep coming. Is it because I'm older and know what all the risks are? I had my last one at 24, I'm 30 now and a lot more problems lay on my shoulders....Ugh. Any advice from yall?
Dh is fine with whatever decision I make, he agrees with all reasons on yes and no. He said his only no is a selfish one and that being that our other 4 are older now and we have a small freedom we haven't ever had.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:20 PM on May. 4, 2010
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