Think about the reality of what life would be like if you were alone, not just the fantasy of it. Would things really be easier. What does your husband bring to the table that you would have to do yourself? Single life with 4 kids could be really really hard. If your plan is to go pick up another man, think about the things that could acure there, a lot of the times it is not good (pedophiles generally target woman with kids, get in there home and all the acess you want) If you want to be alone that wont be easy either, you will have to take care of everything that your husband does now.
Then think about whether or not things can get better in your marriage, every marriage goes through hard times, people would never stay married if they didnt work through these times. Do you treat your husband well or do you both act negativly towards eachother? If you are not kind to your husband, start being that way.
at 12:05 PM on May. 5, 2010