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would u be with someone if they got someone else pregnate?

this may me and my ex would off been 7 years together am 21 and he will be 24 so he started to talk to girl behind my back cheatead on my so i kicked him out well we where broken up he moves in with another gurl that all ready has 5 kids by 3 different men an he gets her pregnate he keeps on wanting to get back with me but he lias to me an her theres so much drama but honestly i dont think i can ever except there kid if i where to stay with him i just dont see myself doing it period can anyone relate oh we have a 3 year old boy

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Asked by LOVE88 at 12:11 PM on May. 5, 2010 in Relationships

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  • no

    Answer by laciD at 12:13 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • uh no, i would not take my dh back if he cheated on me especially if he got someone else pregnant

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 12:13 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • No - my feeling would be that if he wanted to be with me, he wouldn't have been having sex with someone else. And he certainly should have been smart enough to wear a condom!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:13 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • If he had a child before me is something that would not bother me as long as he did his part as a parent and the ex girlfriend did not bring any drama into our relationship. BUT if he cheated on me with her and got her pregnant, i wouldn't want him back.

    Answer by midnightmoma at 12:14 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • I have an issue with men that already have kids before me so no I certainly wouldn't be with someone who made one while being with me!

    Answer by SaraP1989 at 12:15 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • HELL NO! I would NOT take him back. You can do soooo much better. Men like that are not worth the effort! First he cheats on you, then he leaves you, then he moves in with another girl and gets her pregnant?! Sounds to me like he doesn't care about you and is just wanting to come back because you were less drama. If you let him come back, he will cheat on you again. Youll also have to deal with the 'baby-mama drama' and you'll NEVER trust him. It will be a CONSTANT battle for you!

    Answer by leslie_zoe2010 at 12:15 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooway

    Answer by Imane1215 at 12:18 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • I agree with leslie_zoe
    don't bother

    Answer by southernstyle88 at 12:19 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • NO and please learn how to post things that look like they are written by someone who in not in the 9th grade. Not to be rude but you put up a post about things that should be left in high school and type it like a 15 year old. When I get e-mails from my 16 year old brother their more maturely written. Just FYI!


    Answer by delilahsmom1177 at 12:20 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • First ask yourself, Do I see a future with a man that cheats on me and impregnates another woman? Will I always wonder if he's out cheating? Can I see myself with a man that I will constantly watch and wonder about everytime he leaves the house?

    Answer by mom2mybabes at 12:20 PM on May. 5, 2010

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