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How is cheating on the guy your "talking" to wrong?
How is cheating on your "boyfriend" wrong?
And How is cheating on your "husband" wrong?

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Asked by Miszross at 4:05 PM on May. 5, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • how is cheating wrong...well, it's disrespectful. i do not want to be in a relationship with someone who dosen't have enough respect for me to tell me they want someone else. don't play games and be childish, don't lie and try to hide things, if you want it to be over have the balls to tell me to my face

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 4:07 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • uhmm.. i don't think there is a way to cheat on someone you're just talking to because you haven't made a commitment to be with each other in any type of way.
    cheating on your boyfriend is wrong because you've made an agreement to be together and if you were going to cheat on him than you might as well be single because obviously you aren't ready to be in a relationship.
    cheating on your husband is SUPER SUPER SUPER wrong because YOU'RE MARRIED. it's a commitment that is signed and is filled with different consequences that can affect your life in a bad way. if you're cheating on your husband than you're hurting yourself as well as your husband.

    Answer by khmymommi at 4:11 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • well with your husband you made a vow to be faithful. Its also disrespectful and is hurtful. I wouldn't want to hurt someone I love.

    Answer by laciD at 4:11 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • 1. If you are just in the talking stage it is not wrong as long as the talking didn't include "we are talking to each other exclusively"

    2. If you are in the boyfriend stage it is wrong if you both understand that you are seeing each other exclusivelyand are not in an open relationshiip

    3. If you are married then you made a promise/vow to your partner and if you cheat you broke a promise that is very wrong. Besides if your partner cheated on wouldn't feel wronged?


    Answer by Anonymous at 4:13 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • the guy your talking to : i suppose its only cheating if you got his head in a whirl wind thinking he's in love with you and you got him thinking you want to continue with him and possible more.

    the boyfriend: its cheating because you already determined your in a relationship so therefore, no dating for you.

    the husband: its cheating because you took another step and married him, he's no longer boyfriend material. no dating, or sexual talk with another.

    Answer by americansugar80 at 5:06 PM on May. 5, 2010

  • On all levels......... just read the deff. of cheating

    Answer by GMMOLLY at 9:16 PM on May. 5, 2010

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