I have been in this relationship with this guy for more than a year at least I thought. After 9 months in I became pregnant with my second child (his first) he was all excited and said that abortion was not an option, we were going to move in and do this thing right. After jus 2 months of pregnancy the truth was revealed, I caught him on a dating site checking his email and I wasn’t even gone from the house for more than 10 minutes, It hurt so bad because 3 days prior we were at our OB appointment together and he appeared to be so happy. What made me really realize he didn’t care about me or the things I did was when he didn’t show up from my graduation, no call, no flowers, nothing, just a diaper genie and my sons sports bag sitting in my living room when I got home that night.
We still have the keys to each others apartments and every now and again when I come home I will have something for the baby in my house.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:43 PM on May. 5, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 9:07 PM on May. 5, 2010
It sounds like he wants to be a father and that is all. I would tell him that you know he does not want to be in a relationship and that you both should move on. Start talking now about child support and how visitation will work. Do not use your child against him though. He should be able to have a relationship with his child without having one with you.
Answer by FL2AK at 10:47 PM on May. 5, 2010
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