this morning i got a call from my MIL and she told me that my bil's ex-girlfriend lost their baby today. she was about 3 or 4 months along. way before she lost the baby i learned my bil's new girlfriend was saying really bad things and kept telling her she wished her baby would die and that the baby didnt deserve to live and she was trying to send lots of negative energy to her baby. i started to make a protecive charm for both of them. when i heard she lost him(his name was Gabriel thomas) i fell like its kind of my fault because i coulnd finish the protective charm for them fast enough. she is very depresed now and she needs all the healing energy/spells/prayers she can get. i have been praying to the Goddess for her and God to watch over my friend and protect Gabriel in the Summerland. but i feel like my spells/prayers arnt enough. all i want now is for him to be safe in the Summerland with Goddess and God.Answer Question
Answer by flower_angel at 11:55 AM on May. 6, 2010
Answer by RyansMom001 at 12:01 PM on May. 6, 2010
Answer by KristiS11384 at 12:05 PM on May. 6, 2010
First off, this is not your fault. It doesn't matter that the charm wasn't finished, your impulse to protect them is enough. Secondly, your friend needs healing and lots of it. Your friend has been affected by all the negative talk by the new gf and may need some counselling to help her grieve the loss of her baby. I'll be lighting a candle tonight for her and her son during prayers.
If you and her believe in reincarnation, maybe the spirit didn't feel that the situation was optimal for life here at this time and it was better to try again elsewhere. It can't be easy growing up knowing that daddy's wife hates you all because you were born to daddy's ex-gf, especially if the woman is mean enough to say such to a pregnant momma.
Answer by isabellalecour at 1:21 PM on May. 6, 2010
Answer by gmasboy at 1:26 PM on May. 6, 2010
Light lots of white candles and set up an alter with white flowers and decorations. I am sure you know that white symbolizes rebirth with our path thats why we use it in funeral rites. If she is up to it you can do a ritual with supportive family members and friends. You can give everyone a small white candle and ask them to say a few words of healing and well being. I am so sorry for the loss of Gabriel. May he be safe in the arms of the God and Goddess in Summer-Land.
Answer by pnwmom at 1:58 PM on May. 6, 2010
Answer by MamaK88 at 2:08 PM on May. 6, 2010
Answer by flower_angel at 2:09 PM on May. 6, 2010
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Answer by flower_angel at 2:14 PM on May. 6, 2010