I found out that my 13 year old son had been molesting and having sex with his younger half sister and brother, and step brother.
I was out-raged. I immediatley took him to the police station and made him tell them what he had done. He was taken into custody.. and has been charged with several felonies.
I had went to a counceler and was told that we may be able to get counceling and after awhile - look at re-uniting the family.
Today I went to his lawyer.. there is almost no chance of him ever coming home before he is 21 years old. Because he admitted to everything he had done. I felt condemmed. My 13 year old KID - made some very BAD choices... and because I turned him in and made him admit to it.. he will serve a huge sentence and have to register as a sex offender for life.
I know i couldn't have let this go on.. but is it right that he will be punished for the rest of his life?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:21 PM on May. 6, 2010 in Teens (13-17)
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Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 5:37 PM on May. 6, 2010
I would have done the same thing! Don't be so hard on yourself. Some kids don't turn out so well no matter how you raise them and its NOT your fault! Honestly its society's fault and all the shit going on in this F'ed up world! Your not the only one teaching your children ( school, friends ect)! I'm really sorry to hear this but stay strong the other kids need you. Like I said I would have done the same thing with out a second thought.
Answer by Anonymous at 5:45 PM on May. 6, 2010
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