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My husband and I are seperated- cheating or not cheating?

Probably going to be getting back together before the baby is born in two months.. Would he be cheating if he messes around with another girl while we're apart? I feel its cheating.. because we're still married.


Asked by Anonymous at 8:19 PM on May. 6, 2010 in Relationships

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  • of course its cheating if u are planning on getting back together
    IF u were filing for divorce THEN it wouldn't be considered cheating

    Answer by fay101 at 8:35 PM on May. 6, 2010

  • yep,its cheating

    Answer by TMJ121099 at 8:20 PM on May. 6, 2010

  • yes

    Answer by staciandababy at 8:23 PM on May. 6, 2010

  • Definately cheating....what God hath joined together.....

    Answer by TimandMely4ever at 8:29 PM on May. 6, 2010

  • I would consider it cheating if he really wanted to resolve things with you he should put time and energy in your relationship instead of looking elsewhere

    Answer by mom2fivekids579 at 10:18 PM on May. 6, 2010

  • Depends, if you guys are not together then it's not cheating. Is it wrong, yeah it's wrong to mess with other girls while you're still married but it's not cheating if you're not together. If you are planning on getting back together and so is he then that's a different story.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:39 PM on May. 6, 2010

  • Well, he doesn't know that I'm planning on getting back with him before the baby comes home from the hospital....

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:35 AM on May. 7, 2010

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