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How much is too much? What would drive you to divorce your husband?

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missbiggs

Asked by missbiggs at 6:25 PM on May. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Physical Cheating, physical abuse, serious mental abuse... it takes a lot for me to finally decide enough has been enough. I put up with a lot BS...
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:28 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • Telling me he is gay, or bisexual. Having sex/an affair with another person. Being addicted to drugs or alichol. Going to prison for whatever.

    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 6:28 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • cheating, falling out of love, overboard selfishness and laziness, not being a good father, drug or alcohol abuse, not making money to support his family
    PURPULbutterfly

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 6:28 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • Lying, cheating, abuse ---either physical or emotional abuse. And drinking and drugs,too. I think none of us should put up with any of those issues. Cheating and abuse for sure. But the drugs and alcohol: If anyone's DH won't get help or counseling and continues to do any of those things, it would mean divorce, don't you think?
    gertie41

    Answer by gertie41 at 6:29 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • For got one. Abuse.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 6:29 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • Cheating in any sense of the word, Any form of abuse toward me or the kids, smoking pot or doing other drugs..
    imamommmmyyy

    Answer by imamommmmyyy at 6:34 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • lying, cheating, abuse, drugs, being a crappy father, or just being an ass in general
    laciD

    Answer by laciD at 6:34 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • cheating. i already forgave him for an emotional affair which IS cheating to me. so he knows if it happens again I'm done
    abuse . . .not that I think he would. .he's never touched me in anger. . .but if he did i'd be gone
    ColtsFan1912

    Answer by ColtsFan1912 at 7:19 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • cheating or abuse
    I already forgave him for cheating once adn I wont do it again but if it hits me once that will be the only tikme because I'll be long gone with our kids
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 7:26 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • will i guess drugs or doing something very illegal like robbing a bank, rape, murder etc or telling me he's gay or bi
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 7:27 PM on May. 7, 2010

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