I am really embarrassed about asking this. I was wondering if want to used handcuffs and whips and being choked was normal in sex. I want DH to do these things a lot more than he does. It turns me on so much but I feel like a pervert or something for some odd reason. I don't need for DH to do these things to get off but I enjoy them a lot. I feel so embarrassed just saying dirty names for private parts. I just don't want DH to think I am a weirdo. Is this normal?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:31 PM on May. 7, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 7:42 PM on May. 7, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:37 PM on May. 7, 2010
You're into BDSM. It's a personal preference, nothing wrong with that.
Answer by beeky at 7:38 PM on May. 7, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:46 PM on May. 7, 2010
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Answer by tropicalmama at 7:56 PM on May. 7, 2010
OP honey, as long as you and your husband are consenting, (and you're not breaking the law lol) then nothing is weird in the bedroom. My advice to you, is to take your time (you've got your whole life ahead you). Gently break out of your comfort zone, it will allow your dh to catch up with you, and by continually pushing your sexual boundaries, you will keep your sex life going strong long after most couples have fizzled out. I speak from experience. I've been married almost 22 years and still going strong baby;)
Answer by beeky at 7:58 PM on May. 7, 2010
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Answer by admckenzie at 8:35 PM on May. 7, 2010