My DD was 21 months when I had my twin boys. We were NOT thinking we'd have twins, but that's what we got....
At the time, my DD was really jealous of the boys and wanted to be held a lot. I think as long as you make time for your oldest APART from the next little one, they should be fine. All kiddos deserve one on one time. As far as how hard it was....not too hard, except for all the sleepless nights again with a newborn and having to entertain your oldest on less sleep etc.
It's not a bad thing, but I believe when your ready, your ready, and you'll know!
16 months later, life is a bit crazy, but very worth it! xoxoxo
at 9:25 PM on May. 7, 2010