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is it bad to look at your man's text if you suspect something is not right???

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:18 PM on May. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I dont think so because to me there shouldnt be things he is texting if you cant see them. If you ask and it still seems shady, check.the gut is rarely wrong. good luck.

    Answer by Bearsjen at 10:20 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • I feel I have the right to look at any texts whether or not something is not right.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 10:21 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • Yes. If you don't trust him than you shouldn't be with him.

    Answer by SaraP1989 at 10:24 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • nope..he shouldn't be texting anything that he wouldn't want you to see. if you have reason to suspect negativity, ask him straight up.

    Answer by dullscissors at 10:30 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • as an adulter, there's a reason why you want to. your probably right. its only bad and a bad habit if you do it all the time and not let him have his own space and privacy but if you suspect something isnt right...then your probably right

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:50 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • if you have the feeling, the feeling is probably there for a reason

    Answer by americansugar80 at 10:51 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • Well if you have a gut feeling then check it, but if your just curious then no.

    Answer by yolandasix at 11:19 PM on May. 7, 2010

  • Its never right to snoop BUT if you suspect somethings wrong chances are you won't be able to help yourself. If you find nothing leave it at that and if you do find something then there you go. The question is what will you do if you do find something? This is how I caught my exhusband.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:36 PM on May. 7, 2010

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