My husband's sister wants to move in with us. Okay, now over a year ago she was having a hard time and we told her when we moved t0 our next duty station she could. Well, FF and she had a boyfriend and didnt wnt to leave, was trying to get pregnant, thank God she didnt. She has been bouncing from her moms to her dads and her aunts houses. She broke up with the bf recently, and now wants to move with us. We have a 9 month old. I am a SAHM and my husband is AD Army. She seems to be looking for attn and wants a stable role model. Both their parents are not the best examples. My husband says it is up to me. IDK what to do. She is unstable but I think my husband and I could help her. My husband is the only person I have seen her listen to and respect. But we are 22, and 23. Plus I dont want problems around the baby. She has one more year of school. What to do? And if I say yes, what should be rules?I really need some advice. Thanks
Asked by Anonymous at 7:44 AM on May. 8, 2010 in General Parenting
Her being that close to all those young army guys will not be a good things for her or you two. I do not think you guys know what you will be getting into, if you let her stay with you. She is not listening to her parents. She probably not listen to you two. Leave her where she is. She will be 18 and a adult pretty soon. Then she can do what she want to with her life. Stay focused on your own kids. Not some one else's.
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