DH & I are in marriage counseling. We just started with a new counselor last week. We were REALLY late to our 1st appt (long story) and only got to talk w/ her for 15 minutes. This week, we had the full hour. I have 2 issues with her & am wondering if I am overreacting...
1) We had to bring our DD (2) both times because we are having trouble finding childcare. We told her that at the beginning of the 2nd session, and she responded by pointing at my daughter & saying, "Ok well, that's just not going to work for me." and then went on to tell me that I was just bringing my DD so I wouldn't have to pay attention in the sessions. I got pissed & asked her exactly who she thought she was to make snap judgments about me after talking to me for all of 15 minutes (during which I responded to all of her questions in a very timely manner, made eye contact, & provided a LOT of info). She totally backpeddled & started saying that we (cont.)
Asked by Anonymous at 4:42 AM on May. 9, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 4:58 AM on May. 9, 2010
I think you are taking everything she does and everything around you too personal. Listen the world it is not the world -n- you. You need to chill and give this women a chance and bring your child is very disrespecting on not just your part but your hubby's also, and you and your hubby running so late that you only ended up having 15 minute with her your FIRST visit doesn't show that you too are very together so the least you can do is give this a chance and see if she can help you all. For her to do this she has to have BOTH of yours attention FULLY.
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