I have a SIL that every time someone or I talk to her or ask her bout the kids or how's it going, she makes it all about her. She starts talking about how HER day is, how SHE feel, what new shoes or purse she just got n how SHE needs a break or time with her friends. She doesn't think twice about leaving the kids with someone else just so she can get out. She will talk about the kids and things but it's short n cut dry. But when it comes to her, she can talk for ever n she can literly spend hours getting ready. I've told her she sounds consided but She says she's just high maint. Even my bro says HM. I think she's just full of it n very selffish.Answer Question
Answer by myheartx4 at 4:46 AM on May. 10, 2010
Answer by SinaiJ at 6:20 AM on May. 10, 2010
Answer by jamiethornton26 at 7:08 AM on May. 10, 2010
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Answer by MizLee at 8:51 AM on May. 10, 2010
You have to be selfish to be high maintenance.
Answer by samurai_chica at 8:55 AM on May. 10, 2010
Answer by sunshine06 at 9:03 AM on May. 10, 2010
All good answers! I have talked to her and asked her why she's like that, why she talks about herself and she ignore the question and keeps talking about herself. She not only does that with me, she does it with everyone she talks to, and she does have lots of friends and she's always on the phone with someone.
I've even asked her mom if she's always been like that and she said "oh yes". I guess my SIL feels she's the center of attention at every gathering because her mom never told her not to be that way. She's the baby and she's always gotten everything she's ever wanted. So I guess that would make her a bit selfish, conceded and what not. I just think that for her age, and having a family already, she shouldn't be like that or try to be different at least.
Answer by lilhandswonder0 at 12:28 PM on May. 10, 2010