I was with my first bf from the time I was 17 until I was 23. Things started out fine but after the first couple of years he became very verbally abusive. This abuse could happen at any time, but his criticsm of my appearance and performance in bed is what still lingers in my mind.
I am now in my late 30s and with a wonderful man. He tells me I'm beautiful and that he loves making love with me but when we're in bed and he asks me to do certain things I freeze up and can't. It can be as simple as him wanting me to kiss his chest or belly and Ijust can't do it. We have been together for almost 3 years now and I know he must wonder what my problem is but he hasn't said anything, so I think it's time I approach it. I really love him and want to get over my problems. What is the best way to go about talking to him about it?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:25 AM on May. 10, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by flaggot13 at 10:01 AM on May. 10, 2010
Answer by admckenzie at 10:57 AM on May. 10, 2010
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