I read constantly on CafeMom posts about people complaining about other people on PA or other kind of assistance and people saying: "I'm not on PA", like they would say: "I have never killed anybody".
Life is so short why are you wasting it hating? Are you going to bring your money in your grave? I'm not from USA, I don't need any PA and I don't think who is having financial problems should be feel guilty if they get an help.
I'm not talking about people who take advantage (before somebody start to talk about the crack addict who sell the food stamp or the woman who buy just beer!).
I don't mean to be annoying I just wish it would be different on Cafè Mom, I wish the moms on here would support each other instead of backstabbing all the time.
Answer by danielp at 5:39 PM on May. 10, 2010
Answer by Ctink8189 at 5:41 PM on May. 10, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 5:51 PM on May. 10, 2010
Answer by shay1130 at 6:01 PM on May. 10, 2010
"Nobody bashes people who LEGITIMATELY need TEMPORARY assistance. The bashing is directed at those who use PA as a way life instead of getting a job. But let's be honest - there are lot of really lame reasons why people say they can't work."
No, no, on here ALL the people on PA are bashed and classified like loser, this is the feeling I'm having, a reason that can be lame for you, could be a serious reason for somebody other, we shouldn't talk if we're not in the situation.
Answer by shining8250 at 6:07 PM on May. 10, 2010
Answer by RutterMama at 6:16 PM on May. 10, 2010
"Seriously! I posted a question earlier asking how moms carry really heavy toddlers around, just b/c I was curious if anyone had any ideas for me and I got a bunch of really bitchy responses. Some women called me lazy and one said I need more upper body strength! Umm, I just wanted some freakin' ideas! It doesn't matter what you post about, there are angry bitc--s lurking on this site. I often wonder how some of them got anyone to even get them pregnant in the first place! "
I came on here to look for some friends because since I'm living here I always been alone, but I was really shocked by the amount of insults and mean women. Every time you write something you automatically become a punch ball and all the women throw all their frustration on you.
Answer by shining8250 at 6:17 PM on May. 10, 2010
Answer by shining8250 at 6:23 PM on May. 10, 2010
Answer by gertie41 at 7:16 PM on May. 10, 2010
Answer by LaurenKaye29 at 8:10 PM on May. 10, 2010
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