He can't hold on to a job for more than 2 months, He has 2 felony charges and refuses to work for minimum wage, I don't understand why he feels ENTITLED to a "good" paying job when his education level is a G.E.D.
Am I wrong for being tired of hearing him complain and moan on how "hard" it is for him to find employment
Am I being Selfish
I would NOT have a problem with this if he was willing to work 2 dead end job, (many people I know who don't have an education beyond H.S. or have a record will work 2-3 dead end jobs to make ends meet) But he is not willing to do that he wants a "GOOD" job with descent pay, why does he feel that working at a fast-food place is beneath him?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:57 AM on May. 11, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 11:58 AM on May. 11, 2010
That would be a deal breaker for me.
The two felonies would have been a deal breaker for me in the first place.
It is more than money... it is about pride, self respect, being a 'man'. What kind of man cant hold on to a job? It makes me think there must be a HUGE personality issue for him to loose job after job after job. Besides that where is the security. If he can not do something as simple as keep a job (if this is due to his issues and not the economy) than how could I ever have faith that he would be there for me if there was ever an emergency. He is unreliable and therefore a VERY POOR choice to have in my life.
Answer by Anonymous at 12:01 PM on May. 11, 2010
No, you are not selfish! You are smart!! I have BTDT with too many dead beats!! I won't tolerate it any more and I don't recommend any Mom to settle for some one that can't at least pull their own weight!
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