I think it would depend upon whether or not her parents are home and supervising them. If they are home and don't have a problem with him being there, I would probably let him go for an agreed upon amount of time. Maybe you could call the parents and discuss it with them first? I agree with the group going to the show. But in my opinion, if you don't let him see her, it will make him want to even more.
My parents always told me no about going somewhere and with whom I wanted to go with. I did it anyway, behind their backs. I spent more time sneaking out as a kid than anything else! If they'd just let me have some freedom, I would have respected the boundaries. As long as they are supervised by adults, I don't see why it would be a problem.
at 2:55 PM on Jun. 27, 2008