Now, don't be confused... he isn't going to be jobless! But he is working full time and part time right now (64 hours per week, 24 of those at night, 40 retail with an unpredictable schedule). Hubby has a history of being emotionally abusive to me and yesterday was the last straw. We discussed separating. He knows he does it. He doesn't like that he does it, but he does. He has anger and resentment issues from being emotionally abused by his mother and many MANY other childhood issues to work through. He doesn't want to be this way for our son's example, and I won't give up without a fight. So we decided that he would quit his retail job and work for a friend who keep begging him to work for him that will have more reliable and flexible hours. HE NEEDS THERAPY and needs a consistent schedule. If it digs into our proverbial wallet for him to stop being abusive, so be it. we know God will take care of us!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:50 PM on May. 11, 2010 in Religion & Beliefs
Answer by mrs_pulley at 8:53 PM on May. 11, 2010
Answer by dullscissors at 8:57 PM on May. 11, 2010
Answer by pnwmom at 9:30 PM on May. 11, 2010
One word.."Hallelujah!" I applaud you both for not giving up! I also applaud him for wanting to do what is right. I will keep you both in my prayers, and may I suggest reading the husband and wives verses of the bible. Blessings..
Answer by Daphna28 at 10:12 PM on May. 11, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 10:38 PM on May. 11, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 4:13 PM on May. 12, 2010
Sounds like a plan. Good luck..and try to understand his frustrations with the healing process. I think your continued patience with him will be the key to your marriage.
Answer by Anonymous at 1:45 AM on May. 13, 2010
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