I seem to always be at my breaking point. My husband guilt trips me if I say I want to go out and do something solo or with my friends. He doesn't trust me and won't watch the kids well when I go out, so I'll come home sooner. He doesn't want me to work, so I have no money of my own.
I have 3 little kids, 2 who have ADHD and break everything they touch. Plus a toddler in the terrible 2's. My husband doesn't like helping me with them at all if it means getting up. I'm pretty much always isolated from my friends because my husband doesn't like 2 of them, 1 lives a county away, and the other enjoys partying. I'm always lonely, I miss getting attention, and wish I had a husband who would back me up with the kids instead of just scream about them.
When I tell him all this, he throws it in my face that he bought me something/made breakfast/changed a diaper this week and I should be thankful. I am, I just want some me time.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:57 AM on May. 12, 2010 in Health
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Answer by Luvmylilmonkies at 10:33 AM on May. 12, 2010
Tell him to get over it my x used to be like that. First ((((HUGS)))) its hard when someone is so selfish, Second you have to have me time so if I were you I would start a play group or look for one in your area. Three I would get online and start looking for some online classes something you want to do and when you take them it will also help you find and meet people. I would also tell him wow you did it once. You have to teach him how to treat you and I know because my x was like that, We live together because I am in college and starting my own business. Do what you have to do and think about where you have to be and what it is going to take to make you happy work on it. You are an adult and you should do what you need to to make your life important. Last get a copy of The Art Of War.
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 10:38 AM on May. 12, 2010
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 10:40 AM on May. 12, 2010