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Which would be worse to you and Why? If your DH/SO cheated on you with another Man or a Woman?


Asked by Anonymous at 7:52 PM on May. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (16)
  • they would both suck but with a woman would be worse. because as women we compare our selfs and question what we were lacking that the other woman had.

    Answer by newmommyjazz at 7:58 PM on May. 12, 2010

  • Either, really if he cheated, both would be equally horrifying.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 7:54 PM on May. 12, 2010

  • The gender he chooses would not make a difference to me, cheating is cheating!

    Answer by older at 7:58 PM on May. 12, 2010

  • Either is bad.. Cheating is Cheating.. BUT Ill "play"..

    Cheating with a woman would be worse.. IDK why but if he cheated with a man it would some way not be as bad.. I guess its because he would be going after something different.. dont know how to explain it.. lol

    But I couldnt see DH going after a man & he is very faithful! :-)

    Answer by MommaTasha1003 at 7:59 PM on May. 12, 2010

  • yeah woman would be worse... if he cheated with a man i would just think he was gay and it would be easier to leave him, but if it was with another girl i would wonder what she has that i dont...

    Answer by joycegina at 7:59 PM on May. 12, 2010

  • i agree with joyceqina lol took the words right out of my mouth

    Answer by princessbeth79 at 8:00 PM on May. 12, 2010

  • A man would be worse for me because that is SOOO not my husband...

    Answer by Aqua_Jen at 8:02 PM on May. 12, 2010

  • I don't have a problem with him experimenting and finding what he enjoys sexually. I'd rather be with him when he does it but as long as he shares it with me and doesn't try to hide it then I'm ok with either one.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:08 PM on May. 12, 2010

  • Thats a good question, but honastly if it was just a one night stand sorta thing id rather it be with another women. Only because I wouldnt be able to even look at my husband knowing that he had sex with a man, and I would just feel as if he wasnt attracted to me anymore since im a women.

    Answer by jessran1218 at 8:10 PM on May. 12, 2010

  • um a man..because i would feel like he was a complete stranger.

    Answer by shay1130 at 8:34 PM on May. 12, 2010