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Should i adopt another child

i have 4 kids that i have and 1 adpoted child that i have. i adpoted my baby girl because i love kids and i hate to see kids surffer well it is not hard for me i have a boyfriend that help me take care of my kids so i really dont need any help with anything i reall kinda do it by myself. but he help in many ways.

Im not sure should i or should i not ? i tried liesting to my heart but it wouldnt work. so im asking you guy the world should i go phore it or not

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Asked by Shaina11 at 12:12 AM on May. 14, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • If you heart and your home is open and you know that you can take care of another child in every way that they need to be taken care of....then I say go for it........why would you not want to, if you know you can lol

    Answer by glamomomo at 12:47 AM on May. 14, 2010

  • From the way you talk and spell, I'll say no. Instead of focasing on getting more kids maybe you should go back to school.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:47 AM on May. 14, 2010

  • focusing**

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:48 AM on May. 14, 2010

  • maybe you should take your own advice anon...

    dont bash about grammar if you cant spell !

    Answer by glamomomo at 12:54 AM on May. 14, 2010

  • Well, as much as I don't want to agree with the anon...............I do. The spelling is terrible. First of already have 5 kids and you're not married? What is your occupation, because children are expensive. Do you really believe that you can afford another child? I know money isn't everything, but you are not even in a long term commitment. I don't believe that you are in an ideal situation to adopt any more children and I'm actually surprised that you were given one in the first place.

    Answer by BridgetC140 at 1:02 AM on May. 14, 2010

  • I am sorry I have to say -- I looked at your profile...and even though I am all for good young moms - to adopt what would be your 6th child at 22 ! I mean I was sure you had to be atleast 30 .... I mean still if you already know of a child who is in desperate need and you KNOW you can support it in every way..then wonderful...but better wait for a little

    Answer by glamomomo at 1:10 AM on May. 14, 2010

  • I don't think there is an adoption agency on the planet that would allow you to have that many kids as a single mom, who clearly has NO grasp of correct grammer. I think you should go back to school, and then teach the children you already have how to speak proper English and not sound like an ignorant hick. I am sorry, I don't mean to be a bitch here, but you really need to work on how you present yourself, especially if you want others to allow you to raise children.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:57 AM on May. 14, 2010

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