I have no idea what I did or didn't do to get them to hate me so much. I was really hurt by this and did everything to try to get them to like me-bought presents, gave compliments, babysat for his sister's kids, made sure we always went to visit etc. After years of doing this I stopped and haven't done anything for them. Well apparently now they like me?? MIL has been calling me randomly just to chit chat, in the 10 years I have been with my husband she has never done this. Now the sisters want me to run the 10k with them etc. I'm so confused and now I don't want a relationship with them. I spent so much time and energy in the past and finally came to the conclusion that they don't matter. Am I wrong for being the cold one now? I really don't feel like I should have to forgive them and be BFF's with these people who treated me so poorly in the past.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:17 AM on May. 14, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by dayle7 at 12:26 AM on May. 14, 2010
I couldn't agree more with ya. Had they same problem with my SIL and after years of trying... I just gave up. Know she is always trying to find things we can do together or trying to be nice by watching our kids. I say screw anyway..... if you want to do something with them fine.... if not, then don't.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 12:19 AM on May. 14, 2010
Answer by sstokes86 at 12:22 AM on May. 14, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 1:08 AM on May. 14, 2010