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How would you feel if your hubby were too masterbate before going to bed?

I'm confused with this. I don't know what to think and I don't know if I should be mad,upset or what...Just confused...What do you think?


Asked by Anonymous at 1:27 PM on May. 14, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • oh u should be thankful he's doing it himself sweetie. my DH asks ME to do it !! i mean sometimes its fun, but sometimes when u have a cleaning day, cook, laundry, kids etc .. u would rather want him to do it to himself instead !!

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:41 PM on May. 14, 2010

  • well if I was planning to have sex with him and he did that I would be annoyed otherwise I wouldn't really care. He's a grown man he can masturbate anytime he wants to lol

    Answer by laciD at 1:28 PM on May. 14, 2010

  • Most men masterbate, even in a relationship. As long as our sex life was fine, I wouldn't worry about it except to say next time he needs to let me watch, yum!

    Answer by Jademom07 at 1:29 PM on May. 14, 2010

  • I agree if there is nothing wrong with your sex life, who cares..

    Better him then another woman.


    Answer by KFree907 at 1:30 PM on May. 14, 2010

  • i'd feel stumped.. that maybe i dont satisfy him enough so thats y he's doing this. but ofcourse its been only over 2 years since we've been married (and we didnt have sex before we got married) so i'd feel more hurt. maybe in later years i wont care.. coz ive heard with time ure sexual desires also tend to weaken, especially for women

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:31 PM on May. 14, 2010

  • I don't care when he does it as long as we're still having sex. Before bed, first thign in the morning, while he's at work, in the shower, I just don't care lol. If he were neglecting me for that, then I might have a problem with it, but it's not a big deal to me.

    Answer by Ati_13 at 1:32 PM on May. 14, 2010

  • anon so you would feel hurt because he masturbates?

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:32 PM on May. 14, 2010

  • I would not care as long as we are having sex.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:33 PM on May. 14, 2010

  • my DH cums really quickly during sex. our duration is no longer than 10 mins.. but i dont let him know that often im not satisfied. i dont know, just dont want to hurt his feelings, love him too much :P
    so i usually masturbate later to satisfy myself, sometimes right after sex in the bathroom or sometimes next day when he's at work.. then i also watch porn to kick things up a little bit. but ive never told him this.
    if i see my DH masturbating , i might be a little hurt.. but if he does it behind my back, i guess thats ok.. im doing it too..
    and KFree is right, better than himself than doing it with another woman . so i guess its tolerable :)

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:35 PM on May. 14, 2010

  • My husband does it before bed, in the middle of the night, when he wakes up...

    Sometimes I just want to sleep, so I don't care if he takes matters into his own hands, so to speak.

    Answer by lovinmystar at 1:35 PM on May. 14, 2010