my daughter and this guy met when she was 13, and he was 17. they were "friends" who appeared to want to be more, despite the big gape they really seem/seemed to like eachother. they were involved with eachother for over 18 months until 4 months ago they decided to be official "boyfriend and girlfriend" he just turned 19, and she is turning 15 later this year. they claim to be, and act, like they are in love. she was honest with me from the start, yet i told her to NOT have sex or i WOULD press charges against him. she came to me and told me they had sex. i feel heartless calling the police, it would break both their hearts and my daughter would hate me forever. what do i do?
this continues my last question. i told my daughter i was going to send her boyfriend to jail, and she told me my husband has been abusing her and if i tell the cops about her boyfriend, she will tell them about my husband. i dont want my husband in jail.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:08 PM on May. 14, 2010
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Answer by june_kitten at 10:13 PM on May. 14, 2010
Answer by june_kitten at 10:14 PM on May. 14, 2010
Good Lord... what is done is done but why oh why did you ever let her hang out with a boy this old????? You have NO ONE to blame for this... it was YOUR choice to allow them to hang out. Did you not think it would develope into something???
So what do you do now? How are you going to send that boy to jail? Do you have some proff?
And if it was MY child... I would send her straight to therapy to find out if it is true... and move him out IMEDIATELY until I knew if it was true. Child first.... second husband second.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:15 PM on May. 14, 2010
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Answer by Soniam301 at 10:17 PM on May. 14, 2010
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Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:22 PM on May. 14, 2010
Answer by june_kitten at 10:25 PM on May. 14, 2010
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