IN JAN OF THIS YR WE LOST BY FIANCE YOUNGEST SON(22) IN A CAR ACCIDENT. IT HAS BEEN VERY HARD ON ALL OF US BUT ESPECIALLY HIM AND HIS OTHER SON. WHEN THIS HAPPPENED WE WERE IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP, WE HAVE ONLY BEEN TOGETHER 9 MONTHS NOW. IT HAS TAKEN A TOLL ON OUR RELATIONSHIP AND HE IS NOT SURE WHAT HE WANTS OR NEEDS. HE HAS SHUT ME OUT AND HE HAS CHANGED ALOT. HE SHOWS NO EMOTIONS ANYMORE AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. HIS THERAPIST TOLD HIM HE DIDN'T NEED TO SEE ANYONE OR TALK TO ANYONE AND I THINK THAT IS WRONG. SO HE WON'T GO BACK. HE HAS TOLD ME THAT IS OE AND ONLY PRIORITY RIGHT NOW IS HIS LIVING SON. SO I HAVE DECIDED TO DO A SELFLESS ACT AND MOVE OUT FROM THE HOUSE FOR A TIME OERIOD TO GIVE HIM AND HIS SON SOME HEALING TIME. AM I DOING THE RIGHT THING OR AM I WALKING AWAY FROM THE BEST MAN I HAVE EVER KNOWN? I AM SO SCARED THAT WE WON'T FIND OUR WAY BACK TO EACH OTHER. IF ANYONE HAS ANY WORDS OF WISDOM I NEED THEM.Answer Question
if you love him, let him go.
what's meant to be will be.
absents makes the heart grow fonder.
you're doing the right thing. i know it must hurt, but you're a strong person. i hope everything works out for you :)
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Answer by AngelOnBoard at 10:53 AM on May. 17, 2010
I think you did the right thing and I appreciate how very difficult it must have been for you. Your finance is grieving right now. The loss of a child is the most difficult loss to overcome and he will be forever changed by this tragedy but he will get through it. Unfortunately a new relationship isn't likely to last in a situation like this.
I'm so sorry fror both your losses.
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