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this questioned is gonna be hard maybe for some of you ladies out thier shall you put first do you tihnk ur son or husband

im b0red i just wanna know

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:48 PM on May. 17, 2010 in Entertainment

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Answers (13)
  • THat is not a hard question at all... my son without a doubt would come before my husband!
    mom-x-2

    Answer by mom-x-2 at 7:50 PM on May. 17, 2010

  • i think my kids becuase my husband is able to take care of his self
    mrs.lovable

    Answer by mrs.lovable at 7:48 PM on May. 17, 2010

  • I put ME first, otherwise I couldn't be a good Mother or Wife!
    Ewadun

    Answer by Ewadun at 7:50 PM on May. 17, 2010

  • I put GOD 1st above all else! Then my husband (who follows our Lord), I come next and my children after me.
    debrag239

    Answer by debrag239 at 7:55 PM on May. 17, 2010

  • kids frist then hubby
    symle456

    Answer by symle456 at 8:01 PM on May. 17, 2010

  • I agree, dedraq239, in that order.
    mrs2323

    Answer by mrs2323 at 8:02 PM on May. 17, 2010

  • WHAT?! You women put your husband before your children? And yourself? My child comes first, no matter what.
    Annabel1809Lee

    Answer by Annabel1809Lee at 8:32 PM on May. 17, 2010

  • my son first for sure. then me, then my SO
    PURPULbutterfly

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 9:06 PM on May. 17, 2010

  • Kids first.
    jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 9:11 PM on May. 17, 2010

  • In what context? There are times my kids and their needs come first for both of us and there are times hubby and his needs come first and there are times me and my needs come first. I'm not leaving a crying baby to attend to my hubby, but even my 3 yo knows that if he just wants a snack and I'm helping hubby with his physio exercises, the snack has to wait. Now if my 3 yo had fallen or hurt himself, then hubby and I would both be running to make sure he was okay.

    It's not an all or nothing answer, as the kids grow up they'll need us less and eventually will be leaving us and our home to make their own. When they are gone I don't want to be married to a stranger I've just been raising kids with. Plus I think it's a good idea to show my boys what a solid, respectful marriage/relationship looks like and how important it is to make time for our relationship as husband and wife, not just mom and dad.
    canadianmom1974

    Answer by canadianmom1974 at 9:17 PM on May. 17, 2010

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