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how come my ex still haunts my mind?

i am very happy and in love with my husband but for some reason i get these haunting flashbacks all the time. sometimes its when we making love, sometimes its when i'm walking in the house i'm afraid he is going to be inside waiting for me or come behind me. Why do i think of him? I hated him! He was the biggest sleeze ball i have ever been with. I know its probably normal to fear he may be lingering around but why on earth would i have him in my head when i'm having sex with my husband? I don't want him there. It doesnt happen all the time but it has and it bothers me. Could it be from having sexually frustrating issues with him when we were together?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:30 AM on May. 18, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Seek counseling. A good therapist will help you.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:44 AM on May. 18, 2010

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