My hubby and I have been together for 2 yrs. We started dating and I got pregnant after we had the baby we got married seeing it was the right thing to do. Now we have 2 girls and we argue constantly, our arguements get out of control but never in front of our girls. its at the point now where we are hitting and pushing each other yelling and i am just tired of it. We always feel worse after each arguement and say we will work harder but its never like that.. we dont know what to do and need advice?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:45 AM on May. 19, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by figaro8895 at 12:13 PM on May. 19, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 11:47 AM on May. 19, 2010
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Answer by Lovey1234 at 12:00 PM on May. 19, 2010
I've heard a few people say that the first 3 years are the most difficult in a marriage. This was also true for me and DH. After the honeymoon period and birth of our DD, we became completely incompatible....but we still had a very deep love for each other. Even though we couldn't agree on the simplest things and got on each other's nerves repeatedly, we knew deep down that we just had to get through it. This is our 4th year of marriage and we have come SO FAR! We are both utterly happy and we've learned how to live with each other's idiosyncrasies. I think we love each other more now than we ever did, and I didn't think that possible. If you know in your heart that you love your DH and can't live w/o him, hang in there! It'll get better over time! But the physical stuff has to be stopped immediately!
Answer by kenzie07 at 12:20 PM on May. 19, 2010
What do you fight about and when do you fight?
Answer by beeky at 2:45 PM on May. 19, 2010
Answer by ThrivingMom at 2:59 PM on May. 19, 2010
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Answer by TarLion at 4:12 PM on May. 19, 2010