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I'm so upset right now...What would you do?

I just found my husband on craigslist posting about meeting men in parks for oral sex. Could he be gay? I know he has a new friend that he hangs out with all the time. They go to movies, I know the guys wife. I confronted him about it, but he says that oral sex is just oral sex. That it doesn't make him gay.
I don't know what to do...I won't divorce him.

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:23 PM on May. 20, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (16)
  • Hmmmm, is this a troll?

    If not, seriously. If a guy is giving him oral sex, he is GAY and you SHOULD divorce him.

    Really there are some strange people out there.

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:24 PM on May. 20, 2010

  • uh, hes gay. sorry.

    Answer by JackalsWife at 7:24 PM on May. 20, 2010

  • all of the above

    Answer by looovemybabies at 7:25 PM on May. 20, 2010

  • my hubby said he is definately G-A-Y

    Answer by ABusyBee at 7:25 PM on May. 20, 2010

  • Oral sex is sex dude.... And it's cheating.. Is the same if he would have been meeting up with girls. Its dangerous for his health and yours... And i dont have anything against same sex relationship but its nasty when you have a family and wife... He has no respect for you... are u even mad???????

    Answer by iliana90 at 7:26 PM on May. 20, 2010

  • This is like the 10th "is my husband gay?" question in the past few days.....




    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 7:27 PM on May. 20, 2010

  • sounds like you need to have an in depth chat with your husband. oral sex with a man, is homosexual. if he wanted to get oral from anyone it should be you.

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:27 PM on May. 20, 2010

  • Besides being gay, he is also cheating on you. How did he justify that?

    Answer by LittleWeloosMom at 7:27 PM on May. 20, 2010

  • I'm afraid of what might happen if I divorce him.

    We've been married for 20 years, I mean...he says it's just oral sex. I don't know if I want to give up my life over that.

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:29 PM on May. 20, 2010

  • Ok OP if you are that stupid, just stay with him and let him have a night or two out with his "buddies" for a good blow job.


    Answer by Anonymous at 7:30 PM on May. 20, 2010

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