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How would you feel if your husband planned a...

Cruise with his whole family as well as your mother without talking to you about it first?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:54 AM on May. 21, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (9)
  • Pissed. that's a big decision that needs to be talked over. Deciding if you have the money, and if you want to spend it all on a vacation for everyone. I know if i were spending that much on a cruise, it better be just me and my husband

    Answer by sstokes86 at 1:57 AM on May. 21, 2010

  • SUPER PISSED! HE does those kind of things before. He used to and I'll be all "ungrateful" and I'll fight with him about it.

    Answer by LavenderRose10 at 1:59 AM on May. 21, 2010

  • now, if we were fairly wealthy, and had the money for sure, it might not be a problem. but in any other situation, i would be highly pissed! also if it was the first cruise id ever been on, i would be pissed as well. no matter what, lol.

    Answer by jeanniegirl82 at 2:11 AM on May. 21, 2010

  • I would be pissed but at the same time i would understand that he was just trying to be nice and surprise me. But like it was said that is a lot of money that needs to be discussed and time that needs to be accounted and who and where are the children going.


    Answer by Anonymous at 2:17 AM on May. 21, 2010

  • Well the fam are paying for themselves. We are only paying for us. But I wish he would have talked about it with me first. We are not going to spend any time together, he'll be with his bro and mom. I know for sure. He says he wont, but I know he will be. And his mother has never been on a vacation before, so he's very excited about that as am I...I guess I'm just being selfish.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:19 AM on May. 21, 2010

  • I would say "thanks for taking us on a cruise"..

    Answer by Ren_Ren at 8:14 AM on May. 21, 2010

  • As much as I dislike my inlaws, I would be excited and happy.

    Answer by Kathy-PSPR at 8:32 AM on May. 21, 2010

  • My husband plans most of our vacations and trips, so I'd just ask what I needed to pack. Now, specifically a cruise, I'd have to ask him if he lost his freaking mind. Boats scare me. Any other trip, I'd be ok about.

    Answer by Pnukey at 8:53 AM on May. 21, 2010

  • I would be perfectly happy! He can go with ALL of them and let me have a vacation away from all of them at home!!!! Hee Hee!
    A real Vacation is just Him, Me & our Son. I get my fill of his family & mine the rest of the year.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:35 AM on May. 21, 2010

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