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What's your "policy" on connecting to people you/your SO dated once upon a time on facebook/myspace etc?


Asked by Anonymous at 8:48 PM on May. 21, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • i dont care.. they are just a part of his past. We met in Jr. High, Dated through Highschool so all his ex's know me.. I cant control what others will do (if an ex or a nasty stranger contacts him i cant control that), but I cant trust my dh wouldnt do anything that would hurt our relationship.

    Ive looked old bf's up on myspace & even chatted a bit. nothing bad. Im curious about all people that have been in my life. good friends, exboyfriends.. Doesnt mean i dont love my husband & am thankful for having him!

    Answer by MommaTasha1003 at 9:04 PM on May. 21, 2010

  • I don;t care. I have some of me exes on fb and I haven;t told my dh and if he had his exes I dont wanna know.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:49 PM on May. 21, 2010

  • i don't do it. i've moved on. no need to go in search of problems. i stick to people who are part of my life now, with the exception of old classmates, but there's no potential drama there.

    Answer by figaro8895 at 8:50 PM on May. 21, 2010

  • Best to not network with them unless there are children from the relationship.

    Answer by ecodani at 8:59 PM on May. 21, 2010

  • I am "friends" with a number of ex's on Facebook & MySpace... He's not on any networks, but if he was, I wouldn't care if he was "friends" with them. We are still friends with a number of them.

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 9:29 PM on May. 21, 2010

  • I only friended my family and close friends from the present. But I deleted my account today ....guess it doesn't matter now. LOL.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:32 PM on May. 21, 2010

  • LOL well, my DF doesn't have many exes. I DID have a problem that he had one of his exes teenage daughters on his Myspace. Mainly because he didn't tell me, but also because they were calling him dad. He was only with her for a year. So I made him delete them, and I blocked them. Other than that, there are certain people I don't like, and I let him know this. He deletes them. He doesn't tell me who to delete... I have some guys on there from HS... they're gay though, so I don't think he minds.

    Answer by SAMNMAYASMOM at 10:04 PM on May. 21, 2010

  • i don't care what he does on his facebook, and vise versa

    Answer by soflashelley at 10:04 PM on May. 21, 2010

  • Since we went to high school with all of them, it really doesn't matter. We were all friends/classmates/boyfriends/girlfriends at some point. I have his ex on my facebook, as well as my ex.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:28 PM on May. 21, 2010

  • We seem to be at a point of not friending anyone we slept with.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:58 PM on May. 21, 2010