My husband and I are splitting up after 6 years. We have been in a huge rut lately and honestly I am not in love with him anymore. He somewhere along the way stopped trying and maybe I did too. Who knows? The tuff part is he is moving across country next month to take a great job out there. We were both going to go together (as a couple) but after a huge blow up last night (that my 2 year old son watched!) I know I cannot move with him. He is asking me to get a big house with him and I can live on one side and he on the other and so on. Our son is everything to both of us, but I WILL NOT raise him around parents that fight all of the time and we really do! I hate myself for it (all the fighting my son has seen) and have been trying to defuse the situations as they come up but it just does not work out well.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:40 AM on May. 24, 2010 in Relationships
Your hubby still loves you, and he doesnt want to split. That should be obvious b/c any man that doesnt want to be in a relationship with a woman will not stay living with her. I think that you need to understand your feelings. Love and fear are the only true emotions that any of us have. So I suggest that you (and he) take time to write out what you are feeling about each other, the relationship, and yourselves. Then keep asking why you feel that way until you can classify the feelings root as either love or fear. Ask yourself, why you feel you dont love him anymore. Often times relationships fail b/c we stop living in harmony. We fall out of sync w/one another b/c we stop doing the things our spouse likes, and start doing the things we THINK our spouses SHOULD like. I advise the two of you to try to work out your differences and understand your likes. Good Luck!
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